I try to make my on air life as personal as it can be.  I am willing to talk about the dumbest, most ridiculous  things that I've done while exhibiting poor judgement.  I think many of my male friends will understand the term "Catfished", because they may have been through it as I have.  Here's the definition for "Catfished" from Urban Dictionary

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My experience was last summer, when I was accepting some friend requests on Facebook.  In the friend requests was a very beautiful woman.  I approved her along with several other people, and right away she started messaging me, telling me she's a regular listener, that she loves to hear me on the radio, etc.  We started a text relationship, never talking on the phone, always texting   Her Facebook page was full of mutual friends and lost of pics of her dating back a couple of years.  At least she was legit, right?  Who knows. After a month of texting I asked her to go out. On the day we were to meet up she was unreachable by text, phone, messenger, etc.  Her silence went on for a few days and my frustration was on the rise.  Finally after nearly a week had gone by, she texted to say that she was sorry, she had been sick.  I don't know about you I've I've never been sick enough that over a 3-4 day span I couldn't shoot someone a quick text.  More dishonesty took place over the next couple weeks. I asked her out again, but something would come up at the last minute,  She kinda knew I was onto her as I called her out by name on Facebook.  She told me I was mean, slanderous (better read the law honey) and other nasty things.  It was conclusive, I had been catfished.  It's a shame. She was so pretty and had the penchant for sweet talk.  If it was all legit, she would have made the perfect girlfriend. She has since unfriended me and I could care less.  I wish I could post her name and photo, but I don't want to keep all this going.

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Has this happens to you, male or female. Shoot me a message on Facebook or here and we might flush out more dishonest people.

 

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